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Long love, still on fire

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Relationship Stages

David Deida’s 3 Stages of Intimate Relationships

I love David Deida’s style. His writing awakens all the romantic feelings in me and my admiration of men. I become all dreamy and want to know how else my relating can be enhanced. According to David Deida, an international teacher and author, there are 3 stages of relating. He…

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Communication

Why Couples Argue (And the Hidden Mirror in Every Fight)

A couple said this to me this week, and it stayed with me. “It’s so simple, but it’s not easy. When I come to my partner with vulnerability, they meet me with vulnerability. When I come to them with anger, they meet me with anger.” Right? Read that again. The way I show up is…

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Intimacy & Desire

Is Your Sex Life Boring? Here’s Why

Is your sex life boring? Sex… Enjoyable or frustrating? Supposed to be lots of fun, right? If sex isn’t as fulfilling as you want it to be… …you might have a nun/monk archetype as part of your psyche. An archetype is an energy that represents universal patterns of human nature…

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Intimacy & Desire

Seduce Your Partner Into Love: The Power of Feminine Essence

Boredom… Do you feel more like mates than lovers with your partner? Maybe craving affection and romance. Remembering the old days… Why does passion die? Read on to learn how to seduce your partner into love… What creates the attraction? I believe a large part of it’s about our…

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Inner Work

Self-Compassion: When Your Relationship Is Challenging

If your relationship is challenging or you’re tired of judging yourself and feel like you’re not enough, then this video is for you. We’ll practise self-compassion. This practice is so important when our partner isn’t quite there for us. Maybe you had an argument or just feel a…

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Communication

How to Stop Arguing About Money

Part One Money issues… (Do you want to know how to stop arguing about money?) Do you argue about money with your partner? Do you blame your partner for having a different way of dealing with money? Let’s stop the unnecessary arguments! All the conflict comes down to having…

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Communication

Conversations That Matter

I’ve recently came back from the Feminine Power retreat in San Francisco with over one hundred gorgeous women. Wow! It was so profound! In the morning, during in-sessions, at lunch, at dinner and on our walks we were having conversations that matter. I never felt so heard…

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Stay or Go

Should I Stay or Should I Leave My Relationship?

Should I stay or should I leave? Tough question… And painful. Painful to stay feeling unfulfilled and unloved. Painful to leave not knowing if it’s the right decision. Especially if you have children. There’s a reason why you want to figure out if your current relationship is…

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Stay or Go

Are You in the Right Relationship?

The relationship road could be hellish… It seems that the story of ‘happily ever after’ doesn’t stand the test of reality… Relationships are a fast track to personal growth. And somehow humans grow through discomfort and tension. Good news: if you’re having problems in your…

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